We all know that backstabbers are everywhere-double talker, gossiper and an untrustworthy person. There is something extra hurtful when you are back stabbed by someone you know. These people are sugar coated, portraying what they are not, a friend. They gossip about you, but how ignorance they are that others won't do the same.So, basically look before inside the mirror before you judge anyone, like anyone.Are you not better them? Selfish and jealousy are the reason, the root. Its all good, until they started to spread rumors to crush down your reputation. what to do?
Find the source! Who when where what. Basically when you are reading this, you already know what they are talking about you. Try to view from their opinion, get the insight that you will never see. Maybe that's the problem you need to solve, give em a change, for better. Same goes to a dream. Dream will tell you what you should be doing and hints. Try to be high in emotional quality for basically gossip are targeting you, you must got something to hook up with. Not to be furious, keep your head cool and calm. Think and conquer your mind. 'Thanks' them for indirectly pointing out your mistakes, for you to learn , to become a better man
Restore your reputation. If the gossip involve any third party. You need to speak up to them, explain with you sincere heart ! As the saying goes honesty is the best policy.You are genuine upfront , you got nothing to hide. Feel sorry and admit for your mistake and remember do ask for forgiveness. If he/she din't want to hear your explanation over regrets , then its a friend that doesn't meant to be, fated. Important thing is not to exert too much effort proving your backstabber is wrong. Instead your explanation should came across genuine. Ask for a second chance, a chance that you actually cherish the relationship you having now. Human souls are weak, we do make mistakes and its depend on us want to learn from it.
learn to forgive them :) . Forgive them just like how God forgive us. Forgive doesn't mean forget. Let it go as a way to lift your burden on these backstabber for them as for yourself. Why bother wasting precious time on them ? Scars are the marks that remind us how we got it and will be harder and more resistant to it. At least you know their true side before they make something even bigger. One day, you are going to look back in your backstabber episode for them you learnt an important lesson : thanks to them , you know who you friends are !
Speaking from experience here. I know its hurt to have your friend turned on you. Thanks them for the killing blow that actually made your life a little bit different and ...interesting. Here's a video that might lose the tense on you ha ha - we have Dean from supernatural
*No insults intended*
