Imagine this scene: You’re walking down the streets at Orchard. You see this attractive woman walking past you. She is your type of girl, long waving hair, sweet smile with a seductive pair of eyes. She also has nice fair skin and a pair of sexy long legs. You want to talk to her, but you’re scared and you have no idea what to say. Before you know it, she’s gone, and you never see her again. Sad isn’t it? And I’m sure it happens a lot to you. Today I’ll be giving you 9 reasons on why you should approach a girl that you like and talk to her.
1. Hard work
They spend a lot of time, money and effort to be attractive to the opposite sex and that means you guys. If you have a sister or a young woman in your house, you will realize the amount of time the woman spends in the toilet when she is getting ready for a date or just going out. What do you think she is doing inside? I don’t know, but she is definitely spending a lot of time just to get ready. Why? I think she wants to look her best when she’s out there, so she can attract the best male.
Besides time, women also spend huge amount of money on beautifying themselves. If you just do a simple search on cosmetic industry, you will realize it is a billion dollar industry. There is money to be made there. Same goes to plastic surgeries. Some women may go under the knife for bigger breasts or sharper nose to attract the opposite sex. They also spend money on their hair, clothing and shoes and etc.
Next, they can spend whole day going out with their girlfriends for a shopping trip, buy nothing and still be happy about it. For the guys, it will be impossible for us to do that, but they can. This is because they want to make sure they want to buy the clothing that can make them look good. And, you will hear women say this a lot, “Oh no, I have nothing to wear” when they probably have 10 times more clothing than you.
2. Women want to be approached
You will think that women do not want to be approached and disturbed by men. How do you know? You are not a woman. Maybe she wants to be approached. The only thing you know for sure when you see a gorgeous woman is that you want to approach her (if you have the butterfly feeling in your stomach), agreed? In fact, it does not matter if she wants to be approached or not. The most important fact is that you want to approach her and get to know her. And linking back to reason 1, if she doesn’t want to be approached, why the hell would she wants to dress in a way that it attracts males’ attention? Think about it. Not to mention, putting on tones of make ups is really uncomfortable, wearing heels are damaging to the feet. Guys, you have been sneakers all your life, try wearing heels for 5 minutes and see how it feels.
3. Women want men as much as men want women
You see, aside from the lesbians and gays group, women want men too, more than you think! God didn’t put men and women on Earth to be together to be platonic friends. I repeat, we’re here to PROCREATE. If women were made not to be attracted to men, then the human race will cease to exist earlier than you think. And probably I will not be borne to write this article and you won’t be able to read this.
4. You will never see her again, ever
The thing is you don’t usually see the same people whom you don’t know more than once, especially when you’re overseas or in another state. Now, imagine yourself in another country for a vacation, you see this gorgeous woman. You approach her and have a great conversation, but she rejects you when you ask for her number. Now, it is not going to matter since you aren’t going to see her ever again. You’re going to go back to your country, in a few months, and you’ll forget that you even approached this woman. So, approach or lose the chance of seeing her again.
5. You have nothing to lose
When you approach a woman and express your interest to her but she rejects you, you have not lost anything. In fact, you gained something, you gained experience in approaching a woman, and you can only get better at it. The worst she could do is that she rejects you, that is all. No hard feelings. I’m sorry, actually you do have something to lose if you don’t approach a woman you like, you lose the chance to know if she is interested in you, you lose the chance to see her again, to date her, or even have sex with her. Weigh the pros and cons. But I bet you are already used to losing it right?
6. No one is approaching her
Most guys think that hot women get approached a lot, but the opposite is the true. Ask your most gorgeous female friend, trust me, the total number of men approach her outside of clubs will probably be less than 50. That’s not a lot, frankly speaking if you take into considerations that one year has 365 days and she is out 5 days a week for her work. See what I mean? The fact that you approach her gives you an edge over the rest of the male population. One famous saying, “nothing happens until a sale is made”. Nothing is going to happen if you just think about approach a woman instead of taking action! JUST APPROACH HER ALREADY; NO ONE ELSE IS DOING IT!
New information – recently, I chatted up a Malay girl, she told me she gets hit on a lot. Of course in this case, she’s probably referring to Malay brothers. And what this means is that Malay guys have a lot more balls than the Chinese guys in Singapore. I myself am a Chinese but I have to admit this. It’s no wonder the Malay guys are getting our Chinese girls. I have no problem with this – may the biggest balls win.
7. Women don’t slap you when you approach
The truth is women will not even lay a finger on you, let alone slap you, when you approach them. Usually they do that later in the relationship, yes? The worst rejection case I got from a woman was “no it’s cool”. I smiled and walked off. No sweat. I did not even lose a single hair or get killed by her. Another example is that she would walk away from you if she’s truly not interested. And that is all. What is so scary about that? Maybe she’s got AIDS and she doesn’t want to pass it to you when you two have sex. Thank god you dodge that bullet, dude.
8. Pretty women don’t drop from the sky
As much as you wish that one day a beautiful woman will just drop on your lap and be your woman, you’re dead wrong! That maybe possible if you’re a rock star and a billionaire, but you aren’t, probably. So you need to take actions, go and approach her to express your interest. Even, a really gorgeous woman that you really like appear in front of you (because god decided that you deserve one), that doesn’t guarantee you get the girl, because the woman is NOT going to come to you and say, “hey, you know we should hang out one day”. It isn’t their job to do that, it’s YOUR job to do that. Their job is to be pretty and wait for you to approach them.
9. Women love it!
Name me someone doesn’t like to be complimented. That’s bull****. People like to be complimented. Ask yourself this, if someone comes over and mentions that you seem to lose some weight and look like Brad Pitt. Will you be offended? Of course not! You feel that the person just made your day! I have that kind of response before, it makes my day too, since I’m making someone else’s day. I have approached many women (about 100 when I wrote this), and told them they’re attractive, and I told a female friend of mine that she isn’t pageant material. I got a slap, guess who gave it to me?
I have given you 9 solid reasons to approach a woman that you find attractive on the street. Re-read it, think it through, and you know I’m right at least on one of the reasons. And really, all you need is JUST ONE reason to approach that girl. Anything else that is coming out of your mind that stops you from approaching is an excuse. Now, what you need to do is go out and compliment the women that you find attractive! Even if they don’t like it, no harm is done. Plus, it’s their loss.
Good Luck, Have Fun
